Twelve children in 15 years! That would
appear to sum up Amelia's Retschlag's life, at least her married
life. Married at 16, dying at 31.
To give a little more detail, Amalia,[3] (or Amelia, as it was often spelt) was born
1871 in the Haigslea area, near Marburg, in southern Queensland. As the
eldest surviving daughter of German immigrants, Christian and Emilie
Retschlag, her life would have been the typical one of a farmer's
daughter at the time.
In 1875, when Amalia would have been four years old, Walloon Scrub State
School was built, and presumably the young girl would have attended, at
least as often as farm duties would have allowed, as she grew older.
right:
Haigslea state school in 2020, built on the site of the original
Walloon Scrub State School
In 1888, when she was 16, Amalia married a 21-year-old Englishman,
William Dance in a ceremony in the Walloon Lutheran church.[4] (This church was destroyed in a storm which
hit the area in1923). William had arrived in Queensland with his brother
in 1885, and was working in the abattoir on the Retschlag property at
Kirchheim (now Haigslea, just east of Marburg), when he met the teenage
Amalia.
Marburg in the early 20th century
(photo by John Oxley Library, State Library of Queensland)
The young couple set up a dairy farm on 100 acres on Retschlag Road
alongside Amalia’s parents, where she gave birth to 12 children (in 15
years!). Two of their children, Mary and Robert, died in infancy
Her daughter Lily said her mother had a very hard life[5], dying at the young age of 31, one month
after the birth of her son Robert. Her death left William with 10
children to raise, the eldest only 13.
left: Amalia’s grave on a
hilltop in the Anglican cemetery at Marburg. Robert, her 10 month
old infant son, who died some months after his mother, is buried
with her.